The Statewide Study: 178 case records of child abuse and neglect reports were received and analyzed for: • evidence of drug and alcohol usage by family members; • characteristics of the abuse or neglect; • medical status of the reported child(ren); • family composition and demographics; • case status (open or previously closed) when the report was received; and • evidence of battering of the mother by her husband or other adult male member of the household.
Topics: substance abuse, alcoholism, family, violence, alcohol, alcoholism, drinking, family violence,...
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HATE - Battering Ram
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A six legged land ship of my own design.
Topics: missile, thingiverse, missile_launcher, stl, battering_ram, Leg, legs, Walker, propeller, six,...
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A public service announcement for the Center for Nonviolence.
Topics: Indiana, Fort Wayne, Access Fort Wayne, Public Access TV, Community Media, PEG, Youtube, Center for...
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Alan Watt CTTM LIVE on RBN 897 Morality And Cameron Brought To His Notice England Not Land Of Lotus Aug 15, 2011 Aug. 15, 2011 Alan Watt "Cutting Through The Matrix" LIVE on RBN: Poem Copyright Alan Watt Aug. 15, 2011: Morality & Cameron -- Brought to His Notice, England Not Land of Lotus: "P.M. "Canny" Cameron has Postured His Stance, There'll Be No More Riots if He Gets the Chance, Switching His Glare to a Look of Piety, (A Trick Learned by Politicos, Psychopathic...
Topics: A Generation Born into Debt are Living in Slavery, Barrage of Media on Riots, Britain, Mass...
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Book digitized by Google from the library of Oxford University and uploaded to the Internet Archive by user tpb.
Topics: signor, cried, bianca, villa, french, scylla, soldiers, dianora, santugo, public domain, third...
Source: http://books.google.com/books?id=vyUEAAAAQAAJ&oe=UTF-8
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xv, 259 pages ; 24 cm
Topics: Familie, Misshandlung, Lesbian battering, Gay battering, Dating violence, Family violence, Older...
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It has become fashionable to castigate Twitter - the microblogging service - as an expression of rampant narcissism. Yet, narcissists are verbose and they do not take kindly to limitations imposed on them by third parties. They feel entitled to special treatment and are rebellious. They are enamored with their own voice. Thus, rather than gratify the average narcissist and provide him or her with narcissistic supply (attention, adulation, affirmation), Twitter is actually liable to cause...
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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An easy-to-assemble battering ram! All parts are printed once except for the mid piece which is printed twice and the wheels which are printed six times. The base, sides and wheels must be glued but the rest of the pieces can be slotted together. The ram itself swings requiring two M3x20 screws and two nuts.
Topics: siege_weapon, weapon, stl, medieval, thingiverse, battering_ram, siege, Mechanical Toys
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Amazing Stories v15n02 1941 02 (Ziff Davis)
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Amazing Stories v17n06 (1943 06.Ziff Davis)(cape1736)
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I Split and joined the original stl files to make them printable on resin printers. Nothing else has been changed in these files. Only split and join actions. I take no credit for this model as it was created by someone else. I have not tested the supports, but i will add a make as soon as i print all of it. Link to original thing: https://www.thingiverse.com/thing:3346348 The files i uploaded are: - battering ram top whole (Ram_A) - battering ram top Split(Ram_A1 and Ram_A2) - battering ram...
Topics: battering ram, Lizardmen, fantasy, stl, Toy & Game Accessories, thingiverse, warhammer
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Alan Watt~Cutting Through the Matrix~Oct 18, 2020 Oct. 18, 2020 "Cutting Through the Matrix" with Alan Watt (Blurb, i.e. Educational Talk) "Psyop War uses Demonic Technique, Obscuring the Path You can Seek, System's Science Places Reliance On Fear and Terror for Compliance, Fathers Fought to Get Off Knees, No Servile Bowing, Nobles to Please, The System of Fake Money Loaned Does Not Mean that You are Owned, The Eternal Battle Has as its Goal Submission of Body Erasure of Soul,...
Topics: Living Through a Very Old Agenda - The Club of Rome, Book, The First Global Revolution - Lockstep,...
Encyclopedia of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), Self-love, Narcissism, Narcissists, Psychopaths, And Relationships with Abusers, Stalkers, and Bullies
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
The Department has experienced a dramatic increase in the incidents of substance abuse and family violence in its caseload. A recent Department survey indicated that drugs or alcohol was a factor in two-thirds of the supported child abuse reports. In an attempt to ensure greater protection to children in families where substance abuse and family violence place them at risk, and to provide support and guidance to social workers dealing with some of the most difficult and challenging cases the...
Topics: substance abuse, alcoholism, family, violence, alcohol, alcoholism, drinking, family violence,...
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Presenting, The Siege Ram, or as someone else might say, The Battering Ram from The Age of Empires! A siege / battering ram was a siege engine that originated in ancient times and designed to break open the masonry walls of fortifications or splinter their wooden gates. This is my first model with press fit and moving parts! The Log has a Ram head on its front end which has been obtained from Thingiverse user 'Gedelgo' Thank you for classifying your model as CC-SA licensing so designers like...
Topics: aoe, table top, thingiverse, model, war, replica, table, aoe3, stl, 3Dmodel, battering ram, gaming,...
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Part 1 of Sam Vaknin's lecture about pathological narcissism in the Preobrazhenie psychotherapy clinic in Rostov-on-Don, Russia. Translation to Russian: Ekaterina Buturlakina.
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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Jan 28, 2021
01/21
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I am the last person to invalidate the harrowing experience of victimhood. I was the first to describe in great detail narcissistic abuse in 1995 and I coined the phrases “narcissistic abuse” and “victims of narcissistic abuse”. But when victimhood becomes an ideology, a career, a profession, or an identity (like identity politics), it is manipulative and pernicious. Such victims turn into abusers, obsessed with power, celebrity, and money. The only way out of victimhood is to assume...
Topics: victim, survivor, narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD,...
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The unpalatable truth is that falling in love is, in some ways, indistinguishable from a severe pathology. Behavior changes are reminiscent of psychosis and, biochemically speaking, passionate love closely imitates substance abuse. Appearing in the BBC series Body Hits on December 4, 2002 Dr. John Marsden, the head of the British National Addiction Center, said that love is addictive, akin to cocaine and speed. Sex is a "booby trap", intended to bind the partners long enough to bond....
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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Many abusers believe that their abusive conduct fosters, enhances, and cements their intimate relationships. To them, pathological jealousy is proof of love, possessiveness replaces mature bonding, and battering is a form of paying attention to the partner and communicating with her. Such habitual offenders do not know any better. They were often raised in families, societies, and cultures where abuse is condoned outright â or, at least, not frowned upon. Maltreatment of one's significant...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Contrary to popular misconceptions, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and Acute Stress Disorder (or Reaction) are not typical responses to prolonged abuse. They are the outcomes of sudden exposure to severe or extreme stressors (stressful events). Yet, some victims whose life or body have been directly and unequivocally threatened by an abuser react by developing these syndromes. PTSD is, therefore, typically associated with the aftermath of physical and sexual abuse in both children and...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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The narcissist is emotionally attached to only one thing: his disorder. The narcissist loves his disorder, desires it passionately, cultivates it tenderly, is proud of its "achievements" (and in my case, makes a living off it). His emotions are misdirected. Where normal people love others and empathize with them, the narcissist loves his False Self and identifies with it to the exclusion of all else - his True Self included. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism...
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Narcissists are aided, abetted and facilitated by four types of people and institutions: the adulators, the blissfully ignorant, the self-deceiving and those deceived by the narcissist. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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"Holiday blues are a common occurrence even among the mentally sound. In me they provoke a particularly virulent strain of pathological envy. I am jealous at others for having a family, or for being able to celebrate lavishly, or for being in the right, festive mood. My cognitive dissonances crumble. I keep telling myself: "Look at those inferior imitations of humans, slaves of their animated corpses, wasting their time, pretending to be happy". Yet, deep inside, I know that I am...
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Oct 18, 2010
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Normally, one's energy is expended on the proper functioning of one's personality. The personality disordered devote any shred of vitality to the projection and maintenance of a False Self, whose sole purpose is to elicit attention, admiration, approval, acknowledgement, fear, or adulation from others. The Narcissistic Supply thus obtained helps these unfortunates to calibrate a wildly fluctuating self-esteem and, thus, fulfils critical ego functions. (From the book "Malignant Self-love:...
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse - click on this link: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq1.html Abusive conduct is not a uniform, homogeneous phenomenon. It stems and emanates from multiple sources and manifests in myriad ways. Following are a few useful distinctions which pertain to abuse and could serve as organizing, taxonomical principles (dimensional typologies) in a kind of matrix of pain. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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The way the narcissist experiences his life is akin to watching a movie, the illusion is not complete, neither is it precise. This detachment continues for as long as the narcissist's ego-dystonic behaviour persists, for as long as the crisis goes on, for as long as the narcissist cannot face who he is, what he is doing and the consequences of his actions. Since this is the case most of the time, the narcissist gets used to seeing himself in the role of the protagonist (usually the hero) of a...
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse - click on this link: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq1.html Personal boundaries are rules of conduct, red lines in the sand any infringement and breach of which you deem unacceptable behavior. You need to set your boundaries clearly, unequivocally, and unambiguously firstly to yourself: how to protect your dignity, privacy, freedom, and priorities. You then need to communicate your boundaries to your partner replete...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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The fundamental assumptions underlying the modern study of psychopathology examined.
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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Sam Vaknin
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When a patient has a personality disorder and an eating disorder, the therapist would do well to first tackle the eating disorder. Personality disorders are intricate and intractable. They are rarely curable (though certain aspects, like obsessive-compulsive behaviours, or depression can be ameliorated with medication or modified). The treatment of personality disorders requires enormous, persistent and continuous investment of resources of every kind by everyone involved. From the patient's...
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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Do not leave unprepared. Study and execute every detail of your getaway. This is especially important if your partner is violent. Be sure to make a Safety Plan â how to get out of the house unnoticed and the indispensable minimum items that you should carry with you, even on a short notice. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Jan 9, 2021
01/21
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Sam Vaknin
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Some narcissists are not gregarious because they have a comorbid Schizoid Personality Disorder or because life pushed them to become schizoid (see next video). They avoid social events and are stay-at-home recluses. Doesn't this behaviour go against the grain of narcissism? Howard H. Goldman (Ed.) in the "Review of General Psychiatry" [4th Edition. London, Prentice Hall International, 1995]: "The person with Schizoid Personality Disorder sustains a fragile emotional equilibrium...
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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he erotomaniac stalker believes that he is in love with you. To show his keen interest, he keeps calling you, dropping by, writing e-mails, doing unsolicited errands "on your behalf", talking to your friends, co-workers, and family, and, in general, making himself available at all times. The erotomaniac feels free to make for you legal, financial, and emotional decisions and to commit you without your express consent or even knowledge. (From the book "Malignant Self-love:...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Jul 14, 2011
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Is abuse anomalous â or an inevitable part of human nature? If the former â is it the outcome of flawed genetics, nurture (environment and upbringing) â or both? Can it be "cured" â or merely modified, regulated, and accommodated? There are three groups of theories â three schools â regarding abusers and their conduct. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 2 DVDs with...
Topics: abuse, battering, stalking, bullying, mental health, genetics, nature, nurture, culture, society,...
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Nov 28, 2016
11/16
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Part 2 of Sam Vaknin's lecture about pathological narcissism in the Preobrazhenie psychotherapy clinic in Rostov-on-Don, Russia. Translation to Russian: Ekaterina Buturlakina.
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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As opposed to most narcissists, psychopaths are either unable or unwilling to control their impulses or to delay gratification. They use their rage to control people and manipulate them into submission. Psychopaths, like narcissists, lack empathy but many of them are also sadistic: they take pleasure in inflicting pain on their victims or in deceiving them. They even find it funny! (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to...
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The Primary Narcissistic Supply is attention, in both its public forms (fame, notoriety, infamy, celebrity) and its private, interpersonal, forms (adoration, adulation, applause, fear, repulsion). It is important to understand that attention of any kind -- positive or negative -- constitutes Primary Narcissistic Supply. Infamy is as sought after as fame, being notorious is as good as being renowned. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on...
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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Satisficing is when you prefer the just acceptable and minimally satisfactory to the optimal or maximal possible outcomes. The principle, discovered by the Nobel prize winning economist and management theorist, Herbert Simon, helps guide decision-making and is a cognitive heuristic (rule of thumb) within bounded rationality. Psychologically, satisficers have a low self-esteem. This leads them to believe that they can do no better. They have a perceived lack of options (underchoice, choice...
Topics: satisficing, decision making, rule of thumb, heuristic, cognitive, economics, rationality,...
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Jan 12, 2021
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Is Holmes a high functioning sociopath? Actually he is a schizoid narcissist Poirot? The same. Both cloak their sadism as moral uprightness. Are personality disorders merely culture bound diagnoses? Psychopathy as self-state, protective ego resource in DID, BPD (secondary), NPD, HPD, PPD. Philip Bromberg's work. Decompensation owing to intolerable anticipated or actual stress or trauma (CPTSD/PTSD): grandiose and fantasy defenses crumble and lead to acting out or to suicide. Emergence of a...
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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Your abusive ex-partner will try to dazzle you with attention. Return all gifts he sends you â unopened and unacknowledged. Keep your communications with him to the bare, cold, minimum. Do not be impolite or abusive â it is precisely how he wants you to behave. It may be used against you in a court of law. Keep your cool but be firm. Do not let him re-enter your life surreptitiously. Stealth and ambient abuse are powerful tools. Refuse him entry to your premises. Do not even respond to the...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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The narcissist is able to tell right from wrong and to distinguish between good and evil. In the pursuit of his interests and causes, he sometimes chooses to act wickedly. Lacking empathy, the narcissist is rarely remorseful. Because he feels entitled, exploiting others is second nature. The narcissist abuses others absent-mindedly, off-handedly, as a matter of fact. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase:...
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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Listen to Summary: 1:11:13 Sources at the end. 48:27 - 50:37 by Darlene Lancer, not Len Sperry (apologies). Narcissism is a core feature of the personality: primary narcissism in infancy is critical to the formation of the self, healthy narcissism helps us to regulate our sense of self-worth and guarantees self-efficacy. Like cancer, narcissism can become malignant and be triggered in its sick form by any trauma and in any mental illness. It acquires the features of the underlying primary core...
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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1. I will treat myself with dignity and demand respect from others. I will not allow anyone to disrespect me. 2. I will set clear boundaries and make known to others what I regard as permissible and acceptable behavior and what is out of bounds. 3. I will not tolerate abuse and aggression in any form or guise. I will seek to terminate such misconduct instantly and unequivocally. 4. I will be assertive and unambiguous about my needs, wishes, and expectations from others. I will not be arrogant -...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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The Narcissistic Credo I am a child tyrant emperor: infantile, petulant, moody, divine, and delusional. I am a Wunderkind: a boastful genius. I want just to play. Nothing else. To have fun. That's all (shared fantasy). I renounce reality and truth. My game is: you are my vastly inferior slaves and disciples. You must accept me as I am. You are expected to fully forgive and love me unconditionally, regardless of my conduct or misconduct, even when I inevitably hurt you badly time and again. I am...
Topics: credo, beliefs, mores, narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder,...
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The narcissist ages without mercy and without grace. His withered body and his overwrought mind betray him all at once. He stares with incredulity and rage at cruel mirrors. He refuses to accept his growing fallibility. He rebels against his decrepitude and mediocrity. Accustomed to being awe-inspiring and the recipient of adulation - the narcissist cannot countenance his social isolation and the pathetic figure that he cuts. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited"...
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Ken Heilbrunn's insightful and magisterial introduction to "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin. Read the full text here: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/kenintro.html Hello. Recognise me? No? Well, you see me all the time. You read my books, watch me on the big screen, feast on my art, cheer at my games, use my inventions, vote me into office, follow me into battle, take notes at my lectures, laugh at my jokes, marvel at my successes, admire my appearance,...
Topics: ken heilbrunn, sam vaknin, malignant self love narcissism revisited, abuse, antisocial, battering,...
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Pathological charmers react with rage and aggression when their intended targets prove to be impervious and resistant to their lure. This kind of narcissistic injury -- being spurned and rebuffed -- makes them feel threatened, rejected, and denuded. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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Narcissists and psychopaths lack empathy. This deficiency renders them emotionally and cognitively crippled. They exploit, manipulate, and abuse other people because they are unable to relate to them otherwise. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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In the manifestation of their narcissism, female and male narcissists, inevitably, do tend to differ. They emphasise different things. They transform different elements of their personalities and of their lives into the cornerstones of their disorder. Women concentrate on their body (many also suffer from eating disorders: Anorexia Nervosa and Bulimia Nervosa). They flaunt and exploit their physical charms, their sexuality, their socially and culturally determined "femininity". They...
Topics: narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths,...
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In most countries, the police must respond to your complaint. They cannot just file it away or suppress it. They must talk to you and to your partner separately and obtain written and signed statements from both parties. The police officer on the scene must inform you of your legal options. The officer in charge must also furnish you with a list of domestic violence shelters and other forms of help available in your community. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited"...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
